SHE WANTS MORE

This is for the men.
Have you ever had a girl you really liked and the feeling was mutual, you guys hit it off instantly and it's all going great. Suddenly, one day she calls or texts or tells you to your face that it's over and she simply can't give any cogent reason for it? You're left wondering what could have gone wrong, cause you did everything to make her happy; took her out (movies et al), introduced her to your friends, visited her often and probably had this awesome intimacy going on for both of you. It's simple, it wasn't enough. Not because you didn't do your best or that she didn't appreciate your efforts, but because you never satisfied some 'basic fantasies' that almost all ladies have.
Now, you must realize that 95% of girls would be content with a guy who does all I listed above for them. In fact they'd be madly in love with such a guy. But there's that 5% who wouldn't be necessarily "swept off their feet" by such actions. Are they ingrates? Hell no! Gold diggers? Far from it. Infact they want you to spend less. E.g, such a girl would appreciate a call from you by 3a.m, reminding her how much you love and adore her, than you taking her to see a movie. The thing is, she'll appreciate something men don't do regularly more than something as common as going to the movies.
Such girls love spontaneity and unpredictability. So, imagine her finding a hand-written love letter(make it as honest and emotional as possible but don't forget to infuse a little bit of humor) and a small box of chocolates with a note that says "You are as irresistible as they are" or "you are like a box of chocolates, sweet and soft" or whatever you choose to write, in her handbag on a stressful day. (Of course make sure she realizes it was sent from you, probably by using a phrase she's used to you saying or simply indicate your name) She'd be hooked onto you forever. This isn't so hard to achieve. Simply asking a friend of hers to help you with it is enough to do d trick or slipping it into her bag when she's not paying attention. This is, of course, just one example. Imagine the countless other ways you can thrill that special person in your life. Even the 95% average women would love such gestures.
Being plain and expressive with her is important.
Buy her flowers. I know it sounds cheesy but I doubt anyone does it nowadays and so she'll be surprised. Go an extra mile and pick fresh flowers by yourself. Put them in a vase and you can simply add a note or tell her "they remind me of you".
Take her out to a favorite spot of yours in the city. Maybe a garden or the top of a building. Tell her why it's so special. Ladies love when men share things they hold dear, it shows you trust her and you want her to be a part of your life.
Cuddle. I have to be honest, a lot of men ignore or overlook this. One major way to make your lady feel secure and in her element is when you cuddle right after being intimate. It makes her feel wanted and sexy. Whisper sweet nothings in her ear. Tell her how special she is and how lucky you are to have her. Hold her through all this. Say "I just want to hold on to you forever cos I don't want no nigga snatching what's mine", say it like you mean it.
Look at her. Not just the normal everyday look. Tell her with your eyes that "I'm never taking my eyes off you, cos you're simply the best thing I've ever set them on" let your eyes be filled with love and sincerity. Always.
Kiss her. Kiss her when she expects it and when she doesn't. Kiss her when she's angry and when she's excited, kiss her when she's being serious and when she's joking. When she wants to get angry and yell threaten her with a kiss (of course she'd still dare you and yell anyways, kiss her still, she wants you to and it'll be cute). Kiss her in front of others and claim her as yours. It has 2 advantages; it's send off a warning to preying men that she's already taken and it also makes her feel relevant and special to you.
The whole idea is that, to make a woman fall "head over heels" for you without any fear of her wanting to ever break up, you need to think out of the box. Be creative! Nothing is more interesting than a man who keeps you on your feet because you never can really tell what's up his sleeve.
Apply these tips to your relationships. Whether you're tryna woo a new girl in the neighbourhood or you just wanna add some spice to your love life (that has seemingly lost its thrill). Trust me it'll be fun.

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